Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to go all out with romantic gestures, thoughtful surprises, and, of course, stunning, Instagram-worthy moments.
For a special celebration with your partner or a fun gathering with friends, you want your day to be both memorable and aesthetically pleasing.
In Nigeria, where we love a soft life but also have to be creative with our budgets, there are plenty of ways to plan a romantic date without breaking the bank.
If you're looking to make this year’s Valentine’s Day aesthetically unforgettable, here are some aesthetic and Instagram-worthy date ideas to help you create memories (and content) that will last forever and also have your Instagram followers saying, "God, when?"
Aesthetic Valentine's Day date ideas
1. Rooftop picnic with skyline views
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If you and your partner enjoy calm, intimate settings, a rooftop picnic is perfect. You don’t need to book an expensive rooftop restaurant, just find a nice spot with a great view.
Set up a cosy mat with cushions, bring a small wooden table, and decorate with fairy lights and candles. Pack some small chops, a bottle of wine, and soft music playing in the background.
2. Cute café date & love letter exchange
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Nigeria is finally catching up with café culture, and there are many beautiful spots where you can have a cosy, aesthetically pleasing date.
Find a cute café with warm lighting, order fancy coffee or desserts, and surprise your partner with a handwritten love letter or thoughtful gifts.
3. Movie night with an outdoor cinema
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Instead of dealing with crowded cinemas where you can’t even get the perfect shot, why not create your own movie night experience?
Set up a white bedsheet as a projector screen in your backyard, balcony, or even indoors. Arrange bean bags or a mattress with fairy lights, get some shawarma and popcorn, and enjoy a cosy night.
4. Private dinner with a candlelit setup
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Not every time, fancy restaurant—sometimes, the most romantic dates are the ones you create yourself.
Set up a small table on your balcony or even your living room, decorate with candles, fairy lights, and flowers, and cook a delicious meal together. Bonus points if you dress up like you’re in a 5-star restaurant.
5. Boat cruise & picnic on the water
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If you’re in Lagos, you already know that a boat cruise is the height of soft life.
Rent a small boat, pack a picnic basket with champagne and small chops, and just vibe to good music while enjoying the view of the water.
6. Art gallery or museum date
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For couples who enjoy culture and aesthetics, a date at an art gallery or museum is a classy way to celebrate love.
You can make it more fun by dressing in matching outfits that complement the artwork.
7. Romantic horseback riding at the beach
Beaches like Oniru, Landmark, and Tarkwa Bay offer horseback riding, and honestly, there’s something deeply romantic about riding a horse along the shore with the sunset in the background. It gives major vacation vibes without leaving the country.
8. Spa night with candles & rose petals
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Turn your home into a luxury spa with scented candles, essential oils, and a bubble bath filled with rose petals.
Create an aesthetic meat, chocolate, and fruit platter with champagne. Indulge in face masks and a couples’ massage session.
9. Try a new restaurant or local dish
If you and your partner are food lovers, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to explore a new restaurant or even try a local dish you’ve never eaten before.
Visit a suya spot, an eatery with village rice, or a fancy restaurant with an aesthetic setting.
10. Staycation at a hotel
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If you have some extra cash to splurge, book a one-night stay at an aesthetically pleasing Airbnb or a boutique hotel.
Look for places with modern, minimalist décor, a nice balcony view, or a pool where you can take cute pictures.
11. Cosy library or bookstore date
For book-loving couples, spending Valentine’s Day surrounded by books is the perfect aesthetic escape. Visit a cosy bookstore or a library, pick a book for each other, and read together in a corner.
At the end of the day, Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love with your partner, friends, or even yourself.
And while aesthetics are fun, the real magic is in the moments you create. So, just make sure the date is soft, sweet, and full of love.
Which of these aesthetic Valentine’s Day date ideas will you be trying? Share in the comments!
15 interesting solo date ideas to treat yourself
Meanwhile, TheRadar earlier reported on 15 solo date ideas that can help you reconnect with yourself, discover new interests, and boost your self-love.
Among them are seeing a movie alone, cooking for yourself, getting a manicure, dancing, and visiting a museum or art gallery.