10 books on female friendship by Nigerian authors

• Nigerian authors have showcased the joy, complexities and challenges associated with female friendship 
• The theme emphasises support, loyalty, betrayal, and reconciliation
• TheRadar has curated a list of 10 books capturing the essence of female friendship 

Female friendship has often been a central theme in literature, showcasing these bonds’ complexities, joys, and challenges.  

Nigerian authors have explored this theme with sensitivity and depth, creating rich narratives that reflect the complexities, strengths, and opportunities for growth that exist within these relationships.

TheRadar has compiled a list of ten compelling books by Nigerian authors that explore the depths of female friendship. 

10 books about female friendship 

1. "Stay with Me" by Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀

This novel follows the story of Yejide, whose marriage and friendships are tested by societal pressures and personal loss. Through Yejide’s interactions with her closest confidants, Ayọ̀bámi portrays the delicate balance between support and rivalry that can exist among women.

2. "The Secret Lives of Baba Segi's Wives" by Lola Shoneyin

The novel explores the lives of Baba Segi’s four wives, touching on their unique alliances and tensions. The book beautifully portrays the complex dynamics of female solidarity and betrayal within polygamous settings.

3. "Everything Good Will Come" by Sefi Atta:

Sefi Atta captures the evolving friendship between Enitan and Sheri from childhood into adulthood. Through their contrasting life choices, the novel examines the impact of societal expectations on female relationships in Nigeria.

4. "Butter Honey Pig Bread" by Francesca Ekwuyasi:

Centred on the lives of twin sisters Kehinde and Taiye and their mother, Kambirinachi, this novel explores the complexities of familial and female bonds. Although not strictly about friendship, the sisterly dynamic captures reconciliation, forgiveness, and love themes.

5. "Under the Udala Trees" by Chinelo Okparanta: 

Ijeoma's journey to self-discovery and acceptance is deeply influenced by her friendships with other women, particularly during her youth. This novel highlights the strength women can provide each other during personal struggles and societal discrimination.

6. "The Girl with the Louding Voice" by Abi Daré: 

Adunni, the protagonist, forms crucial relationships with other women as she strives for education and independence. These friendships underscore themes of mentorship and empowerment in the face of adversity.

7. "What It Means When a Man Falls from the Sky" by Lesley Nneka Arimah

In this collection of short stories, Arimah crafts narratives that often centre on female connections. Stories like “Light” and “War Stories” explore the depth of female friendships, fragility, and resilience.

8. "The Joys of Motherhood" by Buchi Emecheta

While the novel primarily examines motherhood, it also portrays friendships between women as a source of strength in navigating societal expectations and personal tragedies in a patriarchal society.

9. "A Bit of Difference" by Sefi Atta

Another masterpiece by Sefi Atta, this novel follows Deola as she navigates life as an immigrant in London. Her interactions with female friends and acquaintances highlight the complexities of cultural identity and female companionship.

10. "On Black Sisters’ Street" by Chika Unigwe

This gripping story follows the lives of four Nigerian sex workers in Belgium. Despite their struggles, the women find comfort and strength in each other, forming a unique bond of friendship in the face of exploitation.

These books showcase female friendship as a powerful force that helps characters navigate life's challenges, from societal expectations to personal traumas. The narratives highlight these bonds' joy, strength, vulnerabilities, and complexities.

By exploring themes of loyalty, betrayal, support, and growth, these Nigerian authors present female friendship as a multifaceted relationship that mirrors life. 

Whether you're looking for inspiration, understanding, or a reflection of your own experiences, these books provide a rich tapestry of stories that celebrate the essence of female connections.

Feminism: 10 Nigerian books that centre around women

Meanwhile, in an earlier report, TheRadar compiled a list of some Nigerian novels that focus on women. These books explore themes of gender inequality, motherhood, identity, sexual violence, and marriage issues, reflecting the evolving roles of women in Nigerian and diaspora settings. 

They include Stay with Me, The Girl with the Louding Voice, Everything Good Will Come, Ordinary People, and others.